Dear Madame,

I moved here last December from California and I've been looking for a French girlfriend. Question: Is it normal for French women not to shave under their armpits?and elsewhere?

I have gone out with no less than five of them since I got here, and I can tell you they are full of hair! Arms, legs, armpits, etc. That's just plain gross to me. Do they even know what waxing is?

Signed,

Not liking it at le Bastille

Dear Madame,

My boyfriend insists that I wear heels. I've been wearing them for a year, during our entire relationship, but the problem is I want to stop because my feet are killing me! He said I'm not sexy without heels. Help! I don't want to lose my man.

Signed,

Girl in 4 inch heels

Dear Madame,

I keep having fantasies about my girlfriend's best friend. While I never ever make an attempt to seduce this friend or be with her in any way, I can't help but think about her sometimes when I'm "taking care of myself."I feel really awful and ashamed because I truly love my woman and I know she would kill me if she knew. Help!

Signed,
Ashamed at Levallois Perret

Dear Madame,

My husband with whom I've been married to for one year wants four kids and wants to start with the first one right away. However, I've decided that I don't want any. How do i break it to him? I know he will be totally devastated because I wanted kids in the beginning.

Signed,

Changed my mind in the 7th